A Friend Indeed...

So on Saturday I had a party for my friend H b/c she was going to Korea for a year. I invited a lot of people, and a bunch said they would come, but inevitably only a couple showed up, so there were a couple empty seats at the restaurant. But we had a lot of fun and got a lot of dirty looks from the other patrons b/c we were loud and uninhibited in our topic discussions.

Now in one of my earlier posts, I'd written how my "friend" J had called me and then my phone died, and it took me about 10 min to call him back b/c I was answering another call on my house phone. So I found out why he wanted to know what I was doing on Saturday. One of our mutual friends M was turning 18 later this month, and he'd wanted a party before he went back to school. No one had a set time for when the party would be. So since he never said anything to me the day after when I saw him, it was like whatever, maybe he just wanted to get together to do something as an apology for being such an a$$hole or b/c it's his needy-compulsive nature that he wanted to spend time w/ me. Seriously he's jealous that I'm spending a day out w/ my other friends when for about 2 years, I would spend about 4 hrs hanging out at his house after work 5 days out of the week. And I've known him for about 10 years now. Anyways, around Friday he wanted to get his gaming books back. Well, whatever, they're his books, even though we hadn't gamed for ages. So on Friday night when he drops me off at home, he's like "Say bye to H for me, cause I probably won't see her before she leaves." So okay, whatever and when I told H, she was like "you didn't invite him?" And I give her this look, and her husb from the front seat was said"Why would she want to?" And H said "good point."

So I see J today, and he just casually mentions that he had a b-day party for M on Saturday. Well thanks a fu(king lot since he knew I had a present for M, and since another mutual friend C was going to be there, I could've gave C his present from his B-day b/c it was coming in the mail at the time. And he starts talking that they did gaming, and M bought himself a PS2 and had lots of fun. Well since he's rubbing it in and shit, I didn't want to seem all upset, so I didn't react. And later in the day, M got thrown out of his house by his dad, so we were trying to find a place for him to stay since he was already kicked out by his mom to his dad's. So I'm like, "well he might be able to stay at my house if he's really quiet so my dad doesn't know." And J goes "Well it shouldn't be your problem b/c he's my friend" Now that's just fu*king insulting. So if I don't hang out w/ someone 24/7 it shouldn't mean that I'm not a friend anymore. What a fuc*ing joke. At least I know what he considers a friend. He's just like Tad in the Season Finale for Queer as Folk. Just b/c Ted when acted friendly towards the bartender and Emmet, Tad accused him of being a slut and goes all ballistic. And then later Tad comes by all sorry and thinks it's all ok. And of course Tad started isolating Ted from his friends.

Speak of QAF, I took the calibrator quiz, and the first time I was like Emmet, which is wierd b/c I'm not flamboyant, and when I took it again, I was Ted. But unlike Ted, I'm not desperately looking for a partner. Then again, I'm not 39 either.